I have lots of opinions on many topics. I’ve marshalled
evidence to support some of them; others rest on a mélange of enthusiasm and belief.
Yes, I’m passionate when I express my opinions. Sometimes
that energy gets the better of me. That’s especially true when I’m simply one
misinformed or uninformed voice.
I can add value to a discussion when I find opportunities to
share opinions based on a solid foundation. They’re grounded in research,
personal experience, or some combination of the two. I feel good when I contribute in such
circumstances.
In contrast, I see how my unsupported opinions add little.
They contribute to the steady cacophony that surrounds us. More importantly, I
can spiral downward into frustration, bitterness, and even anger. That’s what
happens when I’m struggling to be heard—just one voice, one strong opinion among many clamoring for
attention.
As a result, I’ve challenged myself to remain quiet when I
believe I have nothing substantive to add to a conversation. By limiting my
energies in this way, I feel less stressed and more effective in my
surroundings. And I'm a lot happier as well.
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