as “to reduce (or undergo a reduction to) an optimal size.”
On an individual level, that means to be devoid of grandiosity, arrogance, and hubris. In my case I’ll add to this list anger, bitterness, and frustration.
On my best days, during my happiest moments, I feel rightsized.
I don’t feel any better or worse than anyone else.
I don’t envy anyone.
I don’t feel jealous of anyone.
I don’t feel like I should be doing and achieving more.
I feel connected to people and circumstances. At the same time, I’m aware of my individuality. I’m confident about my ability to express myself. I don’t feel an iota of self-consciousness about doing so.
I love feeling right sized.